14 Abr Turning friends with benefits into something more requires taking advantage of the present moment

I know that when I say that you want to reply, “Ok but Alex, it's important to be sincere and act like myself!” This is the philosophy that I defend on a daily basis but you need to adapt to the specific situation. The next two paragraphs are going to explain how to act based on your situation.

What better answer for how to go from friends with benefits to a relationship?

For the time being, while you apply my advice, set your feelings and loving thoughts aside, and you'll see results!

Both at the heart of all “success stories” and falling in line with my philosophy is focusing on the present moment. The more you're able to share intense moments, enjoyable dates, intimacy, loosening your grip, and enjoying life to the fullest together, the more you're going to move towards building a solid and long lasting relationship.

Why wouldn't he or she want to invest a bit more if you're having an amazing time together? There are no longer any fears of commitment or disappointments related to their past...

So each time you see your sex buddy or each time you speak, make sure it's for the best, that you take the opportunity to be innovative, and to create the greatest complicity possible! As soon as you create an attachment that is more than just physical, you'll be on the right path!

By doing so, you will ensure that you naturally become closer, and little by little you'll be able to develop a place in their life and give rise to something special: attachment! You see, we're taking it step by step and we're only focusing on positive emotions.

In order to improve the present moment, you have to focus on your wants and desires, and on the positive things that you'd like to incorporate in your life.